Love: When Love Walks of The Door

Every couple in a relationship, whether they like it or not, is bound to experience these little misunderstandings which often lead to the height of giving up and might push the final decision of breaking-up.



As women, we have a very strong internal instinct when it comes to men in our lives. We know, without question, when he feels close and connected to us. Women can also tell when things start to change and when he begins to pull away. If you`re feeling fearful that this is happening in your relationship, you need to take action before it`s too late.

Fortunately, there are signs that your boyfriend does not love you anymore or is beginning not to, already. If you recognize these signs, it actually means that it`s time to make a decision: is it okay with you that he walks out the door? or can the relationship still work out?

One of the signs is that he`ll start to spend lesser time with you. If he seems to have more work and he`s putting in a lot of overtime, you should question that. Naturally, some men really do get busier and are required to focus more on their career, but it`s a perfect excuse for a man who isn`t into the girlfriend anymore.

Another sign is that he`ll start criticizing you more frequently. Men do this when they are detaching emotionally from their women. They create tensions by picking on her. This typically results to a fight and eventually she`ll get so frustrated that she`ll end things up. Surprisingly, many men don`t even fully realize they`re doing it. However, if he seems hypercritical lately, it could very well be that he`s just not feeling as close to you as he once did.

Also, intimacy will change dramatically when your boyfriend does not love you anymore. Even though we are led to believe that a man does not need to feel emotional connection to be intimate with a woman, many still do. He may not feel like making love because he`s not feeling as in love with you as before.

Once you notice these signs, it would be the time to make a decision– to make changes, to talk before he decided to walk out the door and your life, for good. Of course the question to answer is, would that be okay with you?

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